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After the Diagnosis
Patierits will certainly experience a sense of
relief once their condition is finally given a
name and a tangible identity. At the same
time, other emotions - anger, fear, depression,
confusion, grief - may also surface. Patients
may express some of the following sentiments:
"At last - a diagnosis! Now I know why I feel
the way I do."
"Why me?"
"I'll never be able to make plans, because I
don't know what tomorrow will bring."
"I feel guilty for having lupus and for all the
trouble it's causing my family."
"Should I tell everyone or keep it quiet?"
"Will I lose my job?"
"I hate this disease. It's destroying
my life and my family."
"I'm scared."
"Will I die soon?"
"Will I ever be able to have
children?"
"How will we pay all these medical
bills?"
After the diagnosis, some patients will
have an insatiable desire for information
about the disease; others may need to
work through intense emotions before
they can come to grips with their illness
and begin to cope productively.
The
rapport that the health professional
has established with the patient can
now be used to provide the patient
with information, resources, and an
accepting atmosphere in which to adjust
emotionally.
This rapport can set a
foundation of hope.
Source: National Institutes of Health, U.S.Dept of Health and Human Services
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